揠苗助长古时候宋国有个人嫌禾苗长得太慢，就一棵棵地往上拔起一点。后来用来比喻不顾事物的发展规律急于求成，反把事情弄坏。例揠苗助长苦心极力卒无所得也。——宋吕本中《紫微杂说》英spoil things by excessive enthusiasm as one who tries to help the shoots grew by[查看详情]

拔苗助长即揠苗助长嫌禾苗长得慢而用手向上提以助其生长。比喻不顾事物发展的客观规律强求速成反而把事情搞坏。例他还是个孩子呀，可别拔苗助长哟！英pull up the rice shoots with the intention of helping them to grow; try to help the shoots grow by pulling them upw[查看详情]

适得其反适：恰恰。恰恰得到相反的结果。英run counter to one’s desire; the result is just the contrary; accomplish the very opposite;[查看详情]

过犹不及做事做过了头就如同做的不够一样。指做事以适当为贵。例子贡问：“师与商也孰贤？”子曰：“师也过商也不及。”曰：“然则师愈与？”曰：“过犹不及。”——《论语先进》英going too far is as bad as not going far enough;(师，指子张；商，指子夏；愈：较好)[查看详情]